Over the past few weeks our country has suffered traumatic affects to the economy, the war, the lives of women and men all over and even our innocent children have been exploited.

What was once considered the institution of faith and a respectable place to go and worship has been turned into a target for gay rights and homosexuality protest.

Over the past weeks blog after blog and post after post has been reviewed, commented on and even the host being condemned and insulted all becuase their opinion differs from that of homosexuals wanting gay rights.

Do I believe that every human being should have certain rights, or course I do. Do I believe that every citizen who pays taxes should have the right to file with their spouse or partner how they want, or course I do. Do I believe that gays should be allowed to have say in the health of their incapacitated love one, of course I do! Do I believe that anyone should be treated differently as a human being, or course I do not! I say fight on for those rights.

Do I believe that just because you are gay and in a relationship that you should have the equal privilege of calling your relationships marriage, I do not! Do I believe that the word of God is true and no one should disrespect me for my beliefs, of course I do!

Is it right for gays to picket a church, never! A religious foundation is and should always be respect whether you are a religious person or not. I have seen and experienced a lot of anger, disrespect, hate as the gays claim is only directed at them but I beg to differ.

Marriage to heterosexuals is more than just a piece of paper, it is and has always been a sacred and religious ceremony. Should anyone who wills be able to just come in and change the definition of our marriage, NO!

If we begin to allow everyone that says they want to marry to picket and march and complain, what would America become, a country of compromise, certainly not. There has to be an end to allowing frivolous lawsuits from affecting our constitution because of a few activist judges who are not the majority of the people.

Our country compromised with Civil Unions but that wasn't enough gays did not have equal rights. So what then do we do to appease this group of people who claim to be different but want the same rights?

This will be the solution whether many gays agree or not. Keep your civil unions, but with the some of the same rights of traditional couples. There is absolutely no way that same sex couples can call themselves in any way equal to the opposite sex which is the normal and accepted couple in marriage.

Let the gays have their rights in except those things that cannot be equal such a marriage nd the sanctity of marriage which is defined as one man and one woman period.
Gays must remember that just because you say your husband does not make it your husband because it is impossible for a man to have a husband other than the other party being a wife and female, nor can a woman be a husband to anyone.

Eventhough gays want people to accept their lifestyle as it is, there are just some people who will never accept it and it should not be forced into our government. This opens the door for any and every kind or perversion to stand before the courts for equal rights from a lifestyle choice that goes against nature.

Should we allow bigamy? or polygamy? or incest? if not than why? Don't they have the same rights as two consenting adults or multiple partners?

I t will be only a matter of time that this will be introduced into the government if we keep allowing everyone who cries injustice change our constitution to fit their lifestyle. The constitution recognized marriage as the opposite, why change now for the purpose of a lifestyle.

Before gays start crying civil rights remember that you have a choice and you made that choice to go against nature and live you lifestyle the way you choose. Blacks never choose their lifestyle it was chosen for them, you have a freedom of choice we had no choice.

Should every so called injustice be labeled in comparison with our civil rights, of course not.
More hate over the past few weeks have come for the mouths and comment of gays and lesbians commenting on my blogs. Even slandering my ministry and myself which does not score brownie points for their cause.

The same hate that gays has expressed towards me in these blogs is the same hate the express towards everyone who they feel stands in their way of what they want. They insult you, belittle your race and economic status, they curse your God because it goes against their perverted lifestyle. Should we allow this behavior because there are those of us who do not condone this lifestyle. Should we suffer injustice? of course not.

What they once called peaceful protest has spewed hate in other ways towards those that oppose them. We need to stop the injustices of those that are targets of the gays and lesbians who are slandering the church because they believe in the bible. I have looked into some of the comments made against me and my ministry that could and are damaging. Such things as this has been said to damage me, my credibility and my ministry which has nothing to do with Prop. 8 and I quote:

sendittojoe said, "Everyone else - do not bother to respond to Tan's blog's - she represents everything negative with this world - and she has done nothing good with her life. Let's go focus on the good in this world, we'll get further.
Bye Tandra! I don't expect we will be hearing much from you over the next few weeks."

"Its funny - our government has no problem giving our money to all these companies and wall street - but, I don't remember voting on that.
Oh, but some uneducated religious nut job can vote on my marriage. Funny stuff! Just another reason Prop 8 will be overturned, and DOMA will be repealed. "

" Yes, and there are a lot of whores around here - whores being women - women should be silent - women shall obey man. Your bible talks a whole lot about whores.. just sayin"

cltncguy said " yeah, she's been promoted alright, but to where is the question, the latter day NUTS?? '

ibcc said this"its because many of these people need nothing more than a website and a PO box to start a "ministry" and then they can ask for donations and members to start spewing their lies and pushing their own agenda on the weak. Have you ever noticed that these "ministries" go after those who are in desperate need? They go after the drug abusers, homeless, poor - why is that? They need to build an army.. and if I feed you - you must come work with me"

cltncguy said "Secondly, I have refered your website to my attorney, specifically I have asked him about the legalities of your "church" and the legalities of your asking people to make donations but send the check made out to you. He has great concern you are actually going to be bilking people out of money and will be contacting the state of California to review your business license and to find out if you have paid taxes on any donation you have received as you, yourself, are not the "church"."

lvmelvu said "Whoa.... I just checked out her website as mentioned below. Not only does she lie, but she steals as well. "
lbccaregiver said "*ANYONE WHO MAY BE FIND TAN4CHRIST'S BLOG TO BE CREDIBLE PLEASE LOOK AT HER MINISTRY'S WEBSITE @ SOULJOURNERSFORCHRIST.NET PLEASE NOTE THAT SHE ASKS ALL CHECKS BE MADE PAYABLE TO HER DIRECTLY INSTEAD OF THE MINSITRY (click on contact us tab).
I HAVE WORKED WITH FOR SEVERAL NON-PROFITS IN THE PAST, AND THEY WOULD NEVER ASK FOR CHECKS TO BE MADE OUT TO AN INDIVIDUAL PERSON AND WOULD HAVE A GOVERNING BOARD OF DIRECTORS TO GOVERN THE MONIES COLLECTED AND SPENT.
PLEASE KEEP THIS IN MIND WHEN DETERMINING THE CREDIBILITY OF THIS BLOG POSTER. "

This sounds to me a campaign to discredit me and my ministry solely because I stand against same sex marriage. What do you think, do you thing my ministry should be discredited and ridiculed and called fraudulent because I do not agree with these people? We help poor people all over the City of Los Angeles and are receiving h8te emails in the ministires mailbox.
Sounds like H8TE.
STAY TUNED FOR THE RESULTS!